About Universalove

I am an author on a heartfelt mission. I want to share a truth that makes a difference to how one may exist in the world after trauma and victimization. I want our soldiers, veterans, and innocent victims to know PTSD does not have to own us. In fact, we are far greater than this disorder can ever be. We just have to see it for what it is. We have to see ourselves and once we realize this is our greatest priority, our godhood kicks in and reign.

It Is All About You

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It Is All About You

It’s not things in themselves that trouble us but our opinion of things.
by Epictetus

When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.
by Helen Keller

Be independent of the good opinion of others people.
by Abraham Harold Maslow

Rest satisfied with doing well and leave others to talk of you as they will.
by Pythagoras

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Do It!

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Do It!

Cease to inquire what the future has in store,
and to take as a gift whatever the day brings forth.
by Horace

We all live in suspense, from day to day, from hour to hour;
in other words we are the hero of our own story.
by Mary McCarthy

If you want to conquer fear, don’t sit home and think about it.
Go out and get busy.
by Dale Carnegie

There is a time for departure –
even when there’s no certain place to go.
by Tennessee Williams

If you come to a fork in the road, take it!
by Yogi Berra

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Playing With Time?

Playing With Time?

And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count.
It’s the life in your years.
by Abraham Lincoln

You will never find time for anything.
If you want time you must make it.
by Charles Buxton

You live longer once you realize that any
time spent being unhappy is wasted.
by Ruth E. Renkl

You may delay, but time will not.
by Benjamin Franklin

Fear not that life shall come to an end,
but rather fear that it shall never have a beginning.
by John Henry Cardinal Newman

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You Are Priceless!

You Are Priceless!

He is rich or poor according to what he is,
not according to what he has.
by Henry Ward Beecher

You aren’t wealthy until you have something money can’t buy.
by Garth Brooks

Wealth is the product of man’s capacity to think.
by Ayn Rand

Not what we have but what we enjoy, constitutes our abundance.
by John Petit-Senn

Life begets life.
Energy creates energy.
It is by spending oneself that one becomes rich.
by Sarah Bernhardt

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Make The Best Adjustments

Make The Best Adjustments

The solution to our mood problems may not require heroic attempts to change our inner feeling
world or the outer world of other people, places and jobs.
Rather, it may simply involve a shift in the way we pay attention to all of them.
by Mark Williams

Try dying every day to your old self…
So that you emerge renewed and young again as the tired mind sheds its load.
by Kristin Zambucka

People have a hard time letting go of their suffering.
Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.
by Thich Nhat Hanh

Our suffering stems from ignorance.
We react because we do not know what we are doing,
because we do not know the reality of ourselves.
by S.N. Goenka

You can make this new year anything you want it to be. 

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Accept The Present Of Now

Accept The Present Of Now

Love the present.

Take advantage of the opportunity you have been given of a new day.

Know that the answers you seek are in front of you right now.

Notice the beauty all around you.

Focus on all the blessing you have right now and not the bad things that have happened in the past.

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Today Is The Day

Today Is The Day

Beginning today, I will create a new future by creating a new me.
No longer will I dwell in a pit of despair, moaning over squandered time and lost opportunity.
I can do nothing about the past.
My future is immediate.
I will grasp it in both hands and carry it with running feet.
When I am faced with the choice of doing nothing or doing something,
I will always choose to act!  I seize this moment.  I choose now.
by Andy Andrews

If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.
by Bruce Lee

Do Something Now. If not you, who? If not here, where? If not now, when?
by Theodore Roosevelt

One today is worth two tomorrows; what I am to be, I am now becoming.
by Benjamin Franklin

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Dare To Live Your Life

Dare To Live Your Life

Remember, we are all affecting the world every moment, whether we mean to or not.
Our actions and states of mind matter, because we’re so deeply interconnected with one another.
Working on our own consciousness is the most important thing that we
are doing at any moment, and being love is the supreme creative act.
by Ram Dass

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek. by Joseph Campbell

Surely, life is not merely a job, an occupation;
life is something extraordinarily wide and profound, it is a great mystery,
a vast realm in which we function as human beings.
by Jiddu Krishnamurti

Don’t be afraid to become what you were meant to be.
The lust for comfort murders the passions of the soul.
by Kahlil Gibran

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Gone To My Happy Place

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The primary cause of unhappiness is never the situation but your thoughts about it. by Eckhart Tolle

Happiness comes from within. It is not dependent on external things or on other people.
You become vulnerable and can be easily hurt when your feelings of security
and happiness depend on the behavior and actions of other people.
Never give your power to anyone else.
by Brian L. Weiss

Whatever happens around you, don’t take it personally…
Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves.
by Miguel Ruiz

If you obsess over whether you are making the right decision, you are basically assuming
that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another.
The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision.
There is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with
each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.
by Deepak Chopra

You are ready for a change. Just start.
Do something to start the change. Don’t worry about if you are making a correct decision.
It doesn’t have to be a correct decision. Once you take the initial step (right or wrong) you will be guided.
The correct decisions will come to you. But not until you take that first step. Just start.

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Dear Racist

Dear Racist,

First of all I want to thank you for reading my letter.  You do not know me and I don’t know you but I have felt your presence many times.  Yesterday I started my day thanking God for waking me up and allowing me to have a job.  There was a warm and grateful smile on my face as I greeted strangers I passed as I walked through the parking lot to enter the doors to my job.  As I turned the corner to get on the elevator, I was greeted with a dark, cold and fearful unseen vibration that made me wonder if Satan himself had entered the building.  I took a deep breath and proceeded to get on the elevator.  With a smile on my face I pushed the button to the floor I was heading to.  In the meantime there I was just you and me.

You stood there like you were made out of stone definitely was not giving up any eye contact.  You just stood in the elevator as far from me as you could almost as if you were not breathing.   Looking up with a smile, I silently thanked God I did not have to carry that spirit of racism in my soul.  I was glad you kept your distance because shielding me from your cruel vibrations was already difficult.

I don’t understand how you choose to hate someone you know not anything about.  Obviously, it is quite a chore to live with this conscious choice.  But do you know what it is doing to you?  There is no way hatred, anger; disgust, evil thoughts, and a need to attack and kill does not have a price.  These vibrations harm and kill the body.  Love cannot exist with these vibrations.  You can’t turn it off and on to love and return to hate.  It does not work like that.

How do I know how detrimental your state of existence is?  Easy, look at yourself.  Your consumption of hate is so great that you can’t keep it to yourself.  You have to find some kind of way to release it.  So powerfully overwhelming you have to release it on innocent people.  It kills you so you kill people.  It would take aliens from another world for you to realize there is only one race, the human race, a race God created.

I pray that you be set free from this demon of hate so you can live a healthier and warm life.  Your life is valuable.  My life is valuable.  God made us to love.  Just stop it, you don’t need it.  There is so much more to feel and experience in this life.

God Bless

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Be Happy

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Be Happy

Happiness is part of who we are. Joy is the feeling.
by Tony DeLiso

When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears.
by Anthony Robbin

Today expect something good to happen to you no matter what occurred yesterday.
Realize the past no longer holds you captive. It can only continue to hurt you if you hold on to it. Let the past go.
A simply abundant world awaits.
by Sarah Ban Breathnach

Plant seeds of happiness, hope, success, and love; it will all come back to you in abundance.
This is the law of nature.
by Steve Maraboli

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Micro VS Marco

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Micro VS Marco: Keep It Simple

When we  take a real look at life, we must admit the journey is quite overwhelming.  Just when you think you have figured it out, something happens and rocks your world.  The key is to see the whole picture.  You are a micro in a macro world. We don’t think about it we just walk into it like it is normal to be infested with negativity and detachment.

Look at yourself, you are just a single unit of existence.  You are free to bask in this state of being at home but once you walk out the door of your house, your single unit is forced into the macro existence of millions of micros forcing a chaotic and loveless macro that is usually very harsh and selfish.

You get in your car and head to work.  You notice many micros looking very numb and unhappy.  How are you looking to others today?  Are you contributing to the massive heartless macro or are you able to separate yourself from the energy field it possess by smiling and counting your blessings?

The macro does not have to push you around and put you in survival and victim mode if you empower your micro to be here but not here based on what is permeating from your being.  You must make your home heaven on earth.  It has to be the place where you regenerate positive vibrations within your being.  Your environment has to be vibrating a high frequency of good, love, peace, strength, freedom and acceptance of self.

When you make this a priority, you can step out into the macro and not be killed mentally, emotionally and spiritually.  You can also be a contributor to the mini micros who are establishing a base of positive vibrations to exist in a better state of being.  This is a lifestyle with great rewards.  Establishing a self-nurturing base for your self gives you power that grows and become a light in a dark world.

Save your self and love doing it.  It is a beautiful journey.  When you do this, the macro has to back off and emerge with its own kind.

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PTSD and Alcohol Addiction Help and Support

PTSD and Addiction

Frequently co-occurring among people with substance use disorders,
PTSD is a debilitating mental disorder that affects people who have lived through a traumatic event or prolonged trauma.
Simultaneous treatment for substance abuse disorders and PTSD has been shown to alleviate symptoms of
both disorders and often is the only lifeline to save people drowning in the afflictions of the disorders.

Alcohol Addiction

Alcohol addiction is a disease that changes the way the brain works.
It causes negative emotions, impulsive behavior, cravings and withdrawal symptoms.
Treatment for alcohol addiction includes supervised detox, counseling and therapy, and support group participation.

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There Is A Magic About You

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There Is A Magic About You

Today we are going to slow down and see how important we are to our self.  We need our self to learn, grow and love.  What is needed by everyone is space to see.  When our lives are filled with clutter of things, people and activity, we cannot see the forest for the trees.  Facing the world today, we are going to set everyone free to be just who and what he or she may be.  Let the God they serve give them what they deserve.  No longer are our views of what seems best for others are going to control our actions if we see early on it does not make a difference.  It comes a time when becoming less because we’re reaching for others is not acceptable.  Instead, we are going to keep the strong strong by respecting, acknowledging, nurturing and blessing them in unique ways revealed by our hearts.

No longer are we going to drag the weak  because usually the weak are selfish and use our compassion as a means of obtaining what they are capable of getting for themselves.  We are gong to love them with a trusting love that their God will see them through.  Like us who have experienced pain and suffering of some kind and had to move forward so it is with our loved ones.  They must feel the pain to grow if we keep giving them band aids they will never mature or become strong enough to come out of needy mode.

Our love will be the right love where we know for a fact things do get better with or without our two cents.  Save those two cents for positive things that are flourishing.

Love confidently!  Love your self enough to say no sometimes and yes when it is fruitful. We all have a journey even our loved ones.

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What Are You Going To Do?

What Are You Going To Do?

Don’t make excuses today.

Don’t ever look at things now and think your life can’t change.
Change can come in one single moment.

Freedom means you are unobstructed in living your life as you choose.
Anything less is a form of slavery.
by Wayne Dyer

We do so many things that are wasteful and unnecessary,
just because that is the way society says it is.

Again, don’t make excuses today.

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Life Is All Memory

Life Is All Memory!

Do every act of your life as though it were the very last act of your life.
by Marcus Aurelius

Be here now – by Ram Dass

Life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quickly you hardly catch it going.
by Tennessee Williams

Restore your attention or bring it to a new level by dramatically slowing down whatever you are doing.
What matters more than the activity we’re doing at the moment in time is how we feel about it.
by Brigid Schulte

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Dr. Phil – PTSD

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Dr. Phil – PTSD

Symptoms Of PTSD For Everyday People
http://drphil.com/articles/article/204

PTSD Free Program
http://www.mindbodyseries.com/ptsd1free/

Downloaded PTSD Tool Kit
http://mindbodyplan.com/wellnesscenter/free-ptsd-toolkit/

Four Phases of Recovery PTSD
http://drphil.com/articles/article/713/

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Let It Happen

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Let It Happen

Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future.
If we can acknowledge our fear, we can realize that right now we are okay.
Right now, today, we are still alive, and our bodies are working marvelously.
Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky. Our ears can still hear the voices of our loved ones.
by
Thich Nhat Hanh

Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later.
by Og Mandino

What matters is to live in the present, live now, for every moment is now.
It is your thoughts and acts of the moment that create your future.
The outline of your future path already exists, for you created its pattern by your past.
by
Sai Baba

Wherever you are, be there totally.

If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options:
remove yourself from the situation, change it, or accept it totally.
If you want to take responsibility for your life, you must choose one
of those three options, and you must choose now.
Then accept the consequences.

by Eckhart Tolle

Change your life today.
Don’t gamble on the future, act now, without delay.
by
Simone de Beauvoir

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Love Can Not Be Replaced

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Love Can Not Be Replaced

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear,
an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
by Leo F. Buscaglia

Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what
they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.
by Wayne Dyer

The best way to get rid of the pain is to feel the pain.
When you feel the pain and go beyond it, you’ll see there’s a very intense love that is wanting to awaken itself.
by Deepak Chopra

Happiness comes from within.
It is not dependent on external things or on other people.
You become vulnerable and can be easily hurt when your feelings of security
and happiness depend on the behavior and actions of other people.
Never give your power to anyone else.
by Brian L. Weiss

You are ready for a change.
Just start.
Do something to start the change.
Don’t worry about if you are making a correct decision.
It doesn’t have to be a correct decision.
Once you take the initial step (right or wrong) you will be guided.
The correct decisions will come to you.
But not until you take that first step. Just start.

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Do Not React To Your Feelings

Do not react to your feelings… create with them.

Don’t ask what the world needs.  Ask what makes you come alive and go do it.
Because what the world needs is people to come alive.
by Howard Thurman

Instead of thinking it will be hard.
Start thinking it will be easy.  Try it.
You might be surprised.

You know what you need to do.
Don’t let the fear of the unknown stop you.

Once you truly make up your mind to do something
the universe instantly sets things in motion to help you.

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The Mind Can Be A Gold Or Death Mine

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The Mind Can Be A Gold Or Death Mine

Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear
is taking the risk to be alive  and express what we really are.
by Miguel Angel Ruiz

Plant seeds of happiness, hope, success, and love;
it will all come back to you in abundance. This is the law of nature.
by Steve Maraboli

Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviors.
Keep your behaviors positive because your behaviors become your habits.
Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.
by Gandhi

Live authentically.
Live your truth.
And if you love me for anything,
love me because I live mine.
by Neale Donald Walsch

The universe will give you signs to point you in the right direction.

Look for them.

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Give Your Self Time

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Give Your Self Time

The only thing holding you back is yourself.

Do not react to your feelings… create with them.

Learn from the things that irritate and aggravate you the most.  They are there for a reason.

I believe that one defines oneself by reinvention.
To not be like your parents.
To not be like your friends.
To be yourself.
To cut yourself out of stone.
by Henry Rollins

You may be surprised at how many good things or people you have let slip
through your life because you chose to see things in a negative way.

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Blessings

Blessings

Do you consider yourself a blessing or just another person?
by Jonathan Anthony Burkett

Blessings sometimes show up in unrecognizable disguises.
by Janette Oke

Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments;
but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in proper figures.
by Joseph Addison

Any adversity you endure is merely the setting of the scene for all your blessings to play out.
by Anon

No matter what excuses your mind is giving you,
there is no better time to start than right now.  Today.

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Love and Miracles Are One

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Love and Miracles Are One!

Miracles, in the sense of phenomena we cannot explain,
surround us on every hand:  life itself is the miracle of miracles.
by George Bernard Shaw

You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.
by Shannon Adler

Miracles occur naturally as expressions of love.
The real miracle is the love that inspires them.
In this sense everything that comes form love is a miracle.
by Marianne Williamson

Don’t believe in miracles – depend on them.
by Laurence J. Peter

For those who are willing to make an effort miracles
and wonderful treasures are in store.
by Isaac Bashevis Singer

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